In celebration of the recent launch of A Little Sugar, A Lot of Love in paperback, we have the lovely Linn B. Halton on the blog, chatting about Katie, the main character of the novel …
On the surface of it, as we glance at other people’s lives it can seem that they have cracked it. They found the key that allowed them to unlock their dreams and create a perfect life. But that’s the type of thought that follows a really bad day, when everything seems to be going wrong – and we’ve all had days like that!
Common sense tells us that beneath the exterior façade that the world sees is all of the same turbulent, emotional stuff that lurks everywhere. It lurks in your life and in mine, and no one is exempt.
Fictional stories about life and love can’t really be told without there being a moral to the tale. And A Little Sugar A Lot of Love is no exception. We all have dreams, but how often do we become side-tracked because life and relationships get in the way? Katie’s bakery shop is her dream come true. Ah, I hear you thinking, Katie should be more focused on her business and making a profit, and less on supporting the people around her. The moral being: chase your dream if you really want it to come true. Well, yes and no.
I’m not saying that if you have a dream you shouldn’t pursue it with all of the vigour, enthusiasm and energy you can muster. After all, if you do nothing, nothing happens. Most things in life don’t come easy and usually you have to put in a ton of commitment and work before you see any results at all.
No, the moral I’m talking about is something that is often overlooked in that focused mind set to achieve a specific goal. It’s the old adage ‘be careful what you wish for’ because how can anyone know what will really make them happy until they actually experience it?
The late astrologer and philosopher, Jonathan Cainer, once said in an interview that nothing he had ever purchased had given him much more than a very brief sense of satisfaction. Therein lies a big truth, in that satisfaction usually comes from the feelings of achievement and self-worth of doing, or creating, something. But the whole point about being careful what you wish for, is that in life there is always a need to be constantly standing back to assess the bigger picture. And that’s because life is all about change. The person you are today is someone who will continue to evolve as each day passes and you gain more life experiences.
Katie is like so many of us in that she is working towards her dream of running a successful bakery, but she also carries some weighty responsibilities for the people she cares most about, which at times becomes draining. There is never time for her to do more than simply get through each day, so she ends up being reactive, rather than pro-active. Life simply happens.
And that is what is at the heart of this story. A reminder that we aren’t responsible for other people’s actions and sometimes we have to accept what isn’t within our power to change. Katie is a nurturer, but sometimes the kindest action of all is one of letting someone go. And as for the dream? Sometimes it has to change because we change and that isn’t a bad thing, but a way of helping us avoid having to be careful what we wish for—
Writing is my dream, but life took me in various directions before I was finally able to sit down at the keyboard and write my heart out. For me the dream is holding a paperback copy of A Little Sugar, A Lot of Love in my hands and seeing it on the bookshelves in stores as I browse. That’s not to say it eclipses my other dreams of being a wife and mother, and having had several very diverse, but satisfying, careers. But this happens to be the ‘me’ time in my life and while I’ve never been busier, I can honestly say it was well worth the wait! Of course, it takes a whole team of people to make it happen and that includes the wonderful readers and reviewers! Achieving a dream is a blessing and I’m counting mine.
Wishing you well in the pursuit of your dreams …
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